Friday, June 27, 2008
Birth Plan
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Where is she???
Just a quick note to say that I am still alive just not able to post a ton yet. Love you all and hopefully I will be back soon.
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Thursday, June 12, 2008
It's a jungle out there
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Monday, June 09, 2008
Kayden Cancer Warrior
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Friday, May 30, 2008
Goal for June

I am posting this because I need some extra motivation, and I am hoping if I put this out into the void I will have more encouragement and drive to get it done.
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Tuesday, May 27, 2008
I've been tagged by Adan
Okay I admit it, I love the meme's!!!!
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Sunday, May 25, 2008
Everything changes
Shinboo reminded me that today is "the day" it is the day my life changed forever. My father and brother were taken home to be with their Father in Heaven again. I was two years old. I wish I could say that I have not ever been angry about it like my sister. But I have been, in fact I have screamed at my Heavenly Father at times. I feel screwed actually. You see I am my Father's daughter, he was my match. I know he and I would have been like two peas in a pod. With him I would have really fit in. Don't get me wrong I have an amazing woman as a mother. I look up to her and love her more than she will ever know. My sisters are great and my brother is a great man. But, my mom(and all of my family) is beautiful, graceful, sweet,organized, clean (I mean freakishly clean) and all of those other things that makes up a woman of God. I, on the other hand am clumsy, and not very neat, I tend to play too much,laugh too much, I will admit I am down right funny. I am my Fathers daughter. He was hysterical in fact I have heard he could take a plain piece of paper and have you in hysterics in no time.
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Tuesday, May 13, 2008
Mother's day cake
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Wednesday, May 07, 2008
Where to have a baby
You may not know you have options, at least is most states you do.
A hospital birth goes pretty much the same no matter where you do it. The Doctors and nurses run the show. They are guided by rules and are wary of litigation so things need to progress on there terms or you start to have some interventions. When you check in if you are in labor they will hook you up to a fetal monitor to measure your contractions and the babies heart rate. Then if you are having regular contractions they will check your cervix to see if you are progressing. Soon after that you will be hooked up to an I.V. and they will start fluids. If you’ve gone into the hospital to be induced they will start our I.V. first and give you cervidill (a chemical inserted into the vaginal canal) this will ripen your cervix and get you ready to dialate. They could skip the cervidil if you have dialated on our own before you arrive. Most often you will get pitocin (a chemicle made version of oxytocyn which your body produces naturally during labor). Pitocen makes contractions come on strong, long and quickly. You don’t get breaks and neither does the baby. Once you have the pitocin it is very hard to avoid an epidural. I have sen it done but not very often. After you have dialed to a 3 or 4, depending on your hospital you get your epidural. With an epidural comes a catheter (a tube to drain your bladder) and most likely a internal fetal monitor(a device that screws into the babies head to monitor fetal distress) An epidural can and most likely will slow down contraction so Usually your water is broken next if it hasn’t broken on it’s own. And then your contractions start to really work. You should progress rather quickly from here. If you don’t your pitocin will be increased to facilitate this. Usually the baby starts to freak out at this point, you see you have had a break from those pitocin contractions by the epidural but the baby had not had much of a break at all, so you can see it’s heart rate will start to jump around and you will be set up to push if you are ready. You are put into he lythos position (on your back with your feet up in stirrups) And you start to push with a nurse. The doctor is called and heads over. If you are in a good position the baby has o trouble coming. If it gets stuck, which happens often in this position, the Dr. uses a vacumn extractor (a suction device that attaches to the babies head) or forsups (a tong like device that goes around the babies head, I will say this one is not used the most) to help bring the baby down the birth canal. Gravity would do this normally but without feeling n our legs you cannot stand or move to help the baby come through on it’s own. This is where you can end up with a cecarian if the baby goes into too much distress. Usually the baby is born and in most cases is fine. The mom does well, the epidural wears off in a hour or less. The baby is taken and cleaned then about by the time you are both ready you are brought back together.
It is not impossible to have a baby naturally at a hospital but, some of the interventions are a must like the I.V., fetal monitor, and no eating rule.
At a birth center you go in when you feel you need to, most women choose to labor at home for a while before going. When you get there you are quickly monitored. You do not stay on the monitor for very long. Then you are taken to a room, usually you have a bed, some chairs and a bathroom with a large tub and shower. You are escorted by your midwife who stays with you as much as you need her until you deliver. You are feed when you are hungry and given a drink when you are thirsty.(They typically believe the best hole for liquids is the one God gave you) You progress on your own terms and the baby is monitored frequently. Your cervix is not checked as regularly as in the hospital. The midwife listens to the baby through a stethascope and not a fetal monitor. You move around as you feel you need to. And you can get in and out of the tub. A midwife has stadol and morphine (pain medication) if you want it. When the time comes for the baby to be born you are in a position you choose (most often not on our back) In my case my husband is going to catch with my midwife standing by to guide him. There are resusitation devices and oxygin for mom and baby. They have pitocin to stimulate the uterus in case of post partum bleeding. And in case of emergancy they are hooked up with a hospital near by for transport.
You can also deliver at home many CMN’s will deliver here however you don’t have all of the same techknowlegy in your home as you do in a center. But studies show a healthy low risk woman in just as safe if not safer in her own home as in a hospital.
Whatever you choose I want you to know your choices! You need to be where you feel safe with people you trust are doing the best for you and your baby.
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Monday, May 05, 2008
AH MAN ( That's amen to him)
This is what Jordan does when it's time to pray! Being sick is going to be worth it, if I get another baby even half as cute as him!!
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Thursday, May 01, 2008
It's Snowing still
The title has nothing to do with my post today I just felt like putting that out there!
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Friday, April 25, 2008
Differences
After some thought I have decided to keep going with these posts. I know we all have different opinions and some very strong feelings but this is why it needs to be said. There needs to at the very least be a discussion in this country to what we all really want in our lives. No woman can make a real informed decision if they do not know there are many options out there. What do you even pray about if you do not know all of your choices. Most women think of a midwife as a lady who wants you to have our baby in a barn or only in your home. This is not always the case. There are people out there who are only making things worse because they are antagonistic towards anything other than what they think you should do. This is NOT what I am about. I only want women to have the option. To know what they are getting into when they choose to have there babies wherever they choose to have there baby. So this post is the different options for a caregiver during our pregnancy and birth.
*A midwife is a person who, having been regularly admitted to a midwifery educational programme, duly recognised in the country in which it is located, has successfully completed the prescribed course of studies in midwifery and has acquired the requisite qualifications to be registered and/or legally licensed to practice midwifery.
The midwife is recognised as a responsible and accountable professional who works in partnership with women to give the necessary support, care and advice during pregnancy, labour and the postpartum period, to conduct births on the midwife’s own responsibility and to provide care for the newborn and the infant. This care includes preventive measures, the promotion of normal birth, the detection of complications in mother and child, the accessing of medical or other appropriate assistance and the carrying out of emergency measures.
The midwife has an important task in health counselling and education, not only for the woman, but also within the family and community. This work should involve antenatal education and preparation for parenthood and may extend to women’s health, sexual or reproductive health and childcare.
A midwife may practice in any setting including in the home, the community, hospitals, clinics or health units.*
Did you know there are four different types of midwives. Lay, Direct entry,Certified Professional Midwife, and Certified nurse Midwife, I would love to dredge through the confusion and let you all know the difference.
Lay Midwife: *This is a term used to designate an uncertified or unlicensed midwife who has been educated through informal routes such as self study or apprenticeship.*
These types of midwives are outlawed in most states in the U.S. However, there are many who practice under the eyes of the law. They are not licenced to suture, resuscitate, write prescriptions, or even to transport to the hospital. They have to disappear if something goes wrong because they can (and in my opinion probably should) be prosecuted. a lot of the moms who choose these types do not realize how little medical training they have. Although some are well trained in low risk birth I am weary because they would maybe push moms no to see a dr. or be tested for many things that would decrease there ability to birth away form a medical facility.
Direct entry midwife: *She is an independent practitioner educated in midwifery through self study, apprenticeship, a midwifery school, or a collage- or university- based program distinct from the nursing program. She works in and out of hospital setting.*
- again this lady though probably well trained to handle a low risk birth still, has no medical training. Many states licence these types of midwives, however there is a push for outlaw going on in this country as well. They have the same limitations as far as suturing and resuscitation as lay midwives.
*A Certified Professional Midwife is a knowledgeable, skilled and professional independent midwifery practitioner who has met the standards for certification set by the North American Registry of Midwives (NARM) and is qualified to provide the midwifery model of care. The CPM is the only international credential that requires knowledge about and experience in out-of-hospital settings. *
- These women have more medical training but not enough to be able to prescribe medication. They practice at home births.
Certified Nurse-Midwife (CNM)
A Certified Nurse-Midwife (CNM) is an individual educated in the two disciplines of nursing and midwifery, who possesses evidence of certification according to the requirements of the American College of Nurse-Midwives.*
-These are my pick These women have an advanced medical degree the same as a nurse practitioner. They can resuscitate both baby and mom. They bring with them pitocin in case of hemorrhage, they very often work with OBGYN's to transfer a woman who becomes high risk. If they develop complications, or if mom needs to be transported. They monitor for these things very closely. And in no case would they deliver a women who (even if they begged) should not deliver out of the hospital. Many of the time these women deliver at homes because in this country most birth centers close within a few yeas of opening. Due to a lack of support from insurance companies.
In all other developed countries (for example: Great Britain, Sweden, Japan, Norway...) CNM's often practice alongside OBGYN's the Midwifes work with the 70-80% of low risk and the OBGY's take care of the other high risk women.
OB/GYN: A commonly used abbreviation. OB is short for obstetrics or for an obstetrician, a physician who delivers babies. GYN is short for gynecology or for a gynecologist, a physician who specializes in treating diseases of the female reproductive organs. The word "gynecology" comes from the Greek gyno, gynaikos meaning woman + logia meaning study, so gynecology literally is the study of women. These days gynecology is focused largely on disorders of the female reproductive organs. An obstetrician/gynecologist (OB/GYN) is therefore a physician who both delivers babies and treats diseases of the female reproductive organs. ( this definition comes form Medicinenet.com)
-A OBGYN is a medically trained surgeon When in medical school if you specialize in Birth you have a surgical rotation. These professionals are very good at what they do. They are trained to save women who need them. Unfortunately they also look for pathology where it may not be. Many of them have never seen a truly natural intervention free birth.
If we as Americans want to bring our Mortality rates during birth back to where they should be Doctors and midwives have got to work together. There has to be a link between these two worlds. We have got to come together to help the women in this country. We have to quit fighting and work together to get informed. We have got to get better results, we claim to be the most developed country and we have more women and babes dying every day, than morst third world countries. We have got to come together Our babies deserve that.
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Wednesday, April 23, 2008
Birth in America
I have gone back and forth with my decision to write this post. I have a hard time with saying things that may be offensive, I don’t want to hurt any ones feelings I don’t want to offend my friends. But I have some extremely strong feelings about giving birth in this country. So I am going to write a series of posts on this very subject. I am going to start out with simple statistics. I bet you did not ever know.
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Tuesday, April 22, 2008
Free-spirited and wise. You have a strong passionate spirit that touches and changes all who know you. The wisdom and common sense that you have is really what guides you through life. Even so, you also have a very playful side that loves adventure and excitement.
Which Disney Princess Are You?
How Funny is that! Considering this is the only disney movie i really don't like! However I will say okay I can go with that.
Thanks Sarah that was fun.
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Sunday, April 20, 2008
I'm it!
1. Movie Theatre Cashier
2. Medical Assistant
3. Waitress IHOP (SO MUCH FUN!!)
4. Sonic Drink and Ice cream maker.
FOUR MOVIES I WOULD (OR HAVE) WATCHED OVER AND OVER:
1. Steel Magnolias
3. Friends (I know not a movie but I am an addict anyway)
4. Smokey and the bandit
FOUR PLACES I'VE LIVED:
1. Hemet, CA
2. Southern, NV
3. The back of a semi
4. Utah
FOUR PEOPLE WHO EMAIL ME REGULARLY:
1. Salt lake county Library
2. Sally
3. Netflix
4. spam
FOUR OF MY FAVORITE FOODS:
1. Del Taco (chicken tacos & chili fries)
2. cereal
3. Tuna fish with ritz crackers
4. White cheddar popcorn
FOUR PLACES I'D RATHER BE RIGHT NOW:
1. Sitting next to Joe (He's cleaning for me)
2. In the shower, if I could sand by myself
3. My moms house
4. My moms bed!!
FOUR THINGS I'M LOOKING FORWARD TO IN 2008:
1. Seeing my new baby The whole birth process. I love it.
2. Fourth of July in Vegas
3. Jordan going to nursery
4. No longer throwing up (Are you sensing my problem yet? I am kind of grumpy today) SORRY
FOUR FRIENDS I WANT TO TAG:
I think this has been around my group but, if you feel up to it go for it.
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Thursday, April 17, 2008
News
I am officially confirming the rumors.
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Thursday, April 10, 2008
Balloon yarn baskets
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Wednesday, April 09, 2008
Over medicated
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Monday, April 07, 2008
Guitar Cake
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