Friday, June 27, 2008

Birth Plan

(I found an internet hot spot in my house so I get to publish something worth it today)

When you go through a midwife and decide on a natural birth you are asked to create a birth plan. An outline of how you want your birth to go. Things like I want chocolate in the room at all times (Maybe not normal but on my list for sure) If you would like to have an I.V. port for quick access, If you will be banking the cord blood, if dad or you will catch, deliver in water or not. you get the point. Anything goes, if you could have the perfect birth what would it be like.
Maybe when I am done with the whole thing I will post the whole plan.  

I have been thinking about this allot lately, I know I am months away form delivery but I am nervous and am a super planner. So I have at least decided what I will be wearing.  So many ladies end up nude in the end, and I would like to not be completely naked. Mostly because my kids will be in the next room and Michael wants to watch so I don't think he needs to see me that way. (If we let him, we have not made any real decisions yet) So I am going to embrace my inner hippie and make a tie dyed maternity tank top to wear through the birth. How fun will that be. I also will not know what I am having due to the fact I am too cheap to pay for the ultrasound so I am going to tie dye a onsie as well. I know a few of you are probably on the floor laughing right now, but I am serious.  I will be in the tube in my tie dyed tank top delivering my baby. Why not have fun in this process, that will literally feel like I am being ripped open. Maybe if I am looking at my tie dye I will be able to have a little laughter through the pain. I want to enjoy this as much as possible. I am so excited. And now I am going to be even more ready. And funny!!

While my sister was here last week we tried our hand at the tie dying thing just to make sure I could do it. Heres how it turned out.  Now I think I am ready, I will pose for a picture at the end of my pregnancy in the tank top.  When I am ready to deliver so you get the whole gory picture. 


Where is she???

Just a quick note to say that I am still alive just not able to post a ton yet. Love you all and hopefully I will be back soon. 

In the mean time enjoy this cute picture I got of my kids with there cousins last week. The two kids on the far left are a friends of mine. 


Thursday, June 12, 2008

It's a jungle out there

So here is what I have been doing the last couple of weeks. I am starting to produce more and more of these rocking chairs so I thought I needed to finish the one I started for my own Son first. We have a favorite book we love to read together called "Just mommy and me" It is about a little boy who pretends he and his mom are monkeys and they spend the day in the forest together. Michael loves it, we read it and then pretend we are Monkeys all day long. I figured it would be fun to do his rocking chair based on the book. But, it turns out the fact that I have not ever taken an art class came into play more than I thought it would so we did most of the chair in a jungle theme and the rest we just kind of played with. 

These are the outside pieces, front and back. sides

This is a picture of the back and the seat. The Rhino and orange snake was the original back of the chair that I decided was not good enough so I redid it.  MIchael has a cousin who we recently learned likes chamo. so we decided to put a piece of Tanner on the back of the chair. The Key matches the shorts of the monkey from the book. These rocking chairs are so fun, My kids love to take them apart and put them together again. I am no Smee but, I think it was well worth the effort. 


Monday, June 09, 2008

Kayden Cancer Warrior




I don't know how many of you all know this, if I have shared before or not. But, one of our really good friends here in Utah has the cutest little girl you have ever seen. Last year about this time Kayden, KaydeeBug as we all call her. Was diagnosed with Leukemia she has been fighting a long battle that we were all sure was coming to an end. She had her feeding tube out last month and has her last rounds of chemo coming this summer. However last friday Kayden was diagnosed with Avascular Necrosis (AVN) which means the tissue in her bones is going to some day very soon make it impossible for blood to get to her joints. She is 7 years old!!! Her dream since she was 3 was to be an irish dancer. This will never happen. Childhood cancer research when compared with other cancers is very underfunded. There is a bill coming up in congress which can change this. Think about it and if you want to sign a petition to say you want to fund childhood cancer research go tohttp://www.thepetitionsite.com/1/CureChildhoodCancer Thanks guys, Sorry if I bummed you out. It has been kind of a blue afternoon around here.

Friday, May 30, 2008

Goal for June


I am posting this because I need some extra motivation, and I am hoping if I put this out into the void I will have more encouragement and drive to get it done.


Joe and I are setting a goal to not spend any, and I mean any extra money this month. That means no soda, no date nights, no seeing a shirt I like on sale and just picking up a good deal, no saying Joe I am really craving______ can you get it for me, No fast food period! Nothing! Why would anyone do this do you say......

We have two reasons, first we are very curious to see just how much we will save, and two we are going home to Las Vegas for a week for the 4th of July and would like to not have to stress about gas(eek), food, fun, ect...

This is a huge problem for me, I am not a very good planner. I tend to go to the store and come home with things I already have ten of. And then we run out of milk two days later. But, as part of this experiment I am only going to go to the store every 10 days. HOLY COW!! I do not know how I will do this, any tips on how you all stay organized would be helpful. I know one thing I will do for sure and that is stay away from one of my very favorite places, Costco. I am not eve going to go in. I know myself well enough to know that I can not overcome that particular temptation. However I just remembered i am almost out of Diapers, if I go tomorrow does that count. Technically it is not June yet>>>

Wish me luck and let me know if you have any suggestions I would really appreciate it

Tuesday, May 27, 2008

I've been tagged by Adan

Okay I admit it, I love the meme's!!!!


List 3 joys...
1. My Husband
2. My kids
3. A good night sleep

List 3 fears...
1. My kids being hurt.
2. The dark, for real I still NEED a nightlight. 
3. Guns, I cannot stand them, which is hard because my hubby enjoys shooting and I cannot fathom my sons going with him someday.

List 3 goals...
1. I will be a Nurse midwife someday
2. I am reading the bible through cover o cover before the baby is born. I have never read it like that before.
3. My whole family has been trying to eat healthier lately, I hope My biggest goal is to get Michael to try new things. 

List 3 current obsessions...
1. Pregnancy and childbirth (always with me I am a birth addict!)
2. Eating, I have to really think about what I eat, I know it's gross but I probably will throw it up and some things are less disgusting that way than others.
3. Painting, I want to be like Smee' someday!

List 3 surprising random facts about you...
This one is though, I am not sure I will be very interesting,
1. I love the T.V. show charmed
2. I broke my ankle as a Senior in college without breaking the bone... I tore the ligaments and the bones came apart. They had to be tied back together with the stretched ligaments.
3. I really love Tie Dye, I would probably design my whole bedroom in it if I did not think my husband would throw up when he walked in. 

Well there you have it, I hate to tag anyone because I think most of the people who read my blog have been tagged but hey, Do it if you have not!!

Sunday, May 25, 2008

Everything changes

Shinboo reminded me that today is "the day" it is the day my life changed forever. My father and brother were taken home to be with their Father in Heaven again. I was two years old. I wish I could say that I have not ever been angry about it like my sister. But I have been, in fact I have screamed at my Heavenly Father at times. I feel screwed actually. You see I am my Father's daughter, he was my match. I know he and I would have been like two peas in a pod. With him I would have really fit in. Don't get me wrong I have an amazing woman as a mother. I look up to her and love her more than she will ever know. My sisters are great and my brother is a great man. But, my mom(and all of my family) is beautiful, graceful, sweet,organized, clean (I mean freakishly clean) and all of those other things that makes up a woman of God. I, on the other hand am clumsy, and not very neat, I tend to play too much,laugh too much, I will admit I am down right funny. I am my Fathers daughter. He was hysterical in fact I have heard he could take a plain piece of paper and have you in hysterics in no time. 


It was not until I was older that I realized how much I needed him and how much he was there for me. Looking back I know he stood by me as I danced and every time I stood on stage he was in the front row cheering. He was the one who shoved me to St. George when I could not take another minute in Las Vegas and was the one who brought me back home to fall in love with my Dear sweet husband. He stood by me in the temple and watched as I changed from his girl to Joe's. He has watched over and protected me every step of the way. I know when I can't take another second of being up with screaming babies he is the one who comes and sings my kids to sleep. I miss him more every day, He will always be my rock. I love him so much and can't wait to make some real memories in the eternities with him. 

My brother was there as well a perfect seven year old boy. I mean it perfect, my mom puts it as "He just did not understand disobedience" I think I could have learned a ton from him. I bet he would have kept us all from doing all of the fighting we did. I think he would have been the guy who took all of the pain on him and let you get away with it. I know I have a great big brother waiting for me. I wish I had more stories, more memories (any memories really) I wish I could look into heaven for just a little while to get to know him. I bet he is a great guy. He started out great. In fact the night before he died he told my mother he was not afraid to die he just did not want to do it alone. I wonder what great plan was in store for him, I wonder how my Dad helped him fulfill it. I can't wait to find out.  

So heres a few tears for two wonderful men who left my life and a few of your as well too soon! I am so thankful my parents went to the temple and were sealed together for all of eternity. I am so thankful I know that I will see them again. I will spend eternity making better memories than I  could make now. How great is the gospel of Jesus Christ and how lucky I am to be a part of it. 

Tuesday, May 13, 2008

Mother's day cake


This is what I got for Mothers day this year! It was so fun, Joe took a 9x13 pan and made me a yellow cake. Then he cut the cake in half and layered it with chocolate frosting.  YUMM!!




It may not have been the prettiest cake ever but it was so fun to listen to him make it with my kids while I stayed in the other room. Thank you guys I had a great day!

Wednesday, May 07, 2008

Where to have a baby

You may not know you have options, at least is most states you do. 



A hospital birth goes pretty much the same no matter where you do it. The Doctors and nurses run the show. They are guided by rules and are wary of litigation so things need to progress on there terms or you start to have some interventions. When you check in if you are in labor they will hook you up to a fetal monitor to measure your contractions and the babies heart rate. Then if you are having regular contractions they will check your cervix to see if you are progressing. Soon after that you will be hooked up to an I.V. and they will start fluids. If you’ve gone into the hospital to be induced they will start our I.V. first and give you cervidill (a chemical inserted into the vaginal canal) this will ripen your cervix and get you ready to dialate. They could skip the cervidil if you have dialated on our own before you arrive. Most often you will get pitocin (a chemicle made version of oxytocyn which your body produces naturally during labor). Pitocen makes contractions come on strong, long and quickly. You don’t get breaks and neither does the baby. Once you have the pitocin it is very hard to avoid an epidural. I have sen it done but not very often. After you have dialed to a 3 or 4, depending on your hospital you get your epidural. With an epidural comes a catheter (a tube to drain your bladder) and most likely a internal fetal monitor(a device that screws into the babies head to monitor fetal distress) An epidural can and most likely will slow down contraction so Usually your water is broken next if it hasn’t broken on it’s own. And then your contractions start to really work. You should progress rather quickly from here. If you don’t your pitocin will be increased to facilitate this. Usually the baby starts to freak out at this point, you see you have had a break from those pitocin contractions by the epidural but the baby had not had much of a break at all, so you can see it’s heart rate will start to jump around and you will be set up to push if you are ready. You are put into he lythos position (on your back with your feet up in stirrups) And you start to push with a nurse. The doctor is called and heads over. If you are in a good position the baby has o trouble coming. If it gets stuck, which happens often in this position, the Dr. uses a vacumn extractor (a suction device that attaches to the babies head) or forsups (a tong like device that goes around the babies head, I will say this one is not used the most) to help bring the baby down the birth canal. Gravity would do this normally but without feeling n our legs you cannot stand or move to help the baby come through on it’s own. This is where you can end up with a cecarian if the baby goes into too much distress. Usually the baby is born and in most cases is fine. The mom does well, the epidural wears off in a hour or less. The baby is taken and cleaned then about by the time you are both ready you are brought back together. 

It is not impossible to have a baby naturally at a hospital but, some of the interventions are a must like the I.V., fetal monitor, and no eating rule. 


At a birth center you go in when you feel you need to, most women choose to labor at home for a while before going. When you get there you are quickly monitored. You do not stay on the monitor for very long. Then you are taken to a room, usually you have a bed, some chairs and a bathroom with a large tub and shower. You are escorted by your midwife who stays with you as much as you need her until you deliver. You are feed when you are hungry and given a drink when you are thirsty.(They typically believe the best hole for liquids is the one God gave you) You progress on your own terms and the baby is monitored frequently. Your cervix is not checked as regularly as in the hospital. The midwife listens to the baby through a stethascope and not a fetal monitor. You move around as you feel you need to. And you can get in and out of the tub. A midwife has stadol and morphine (pain medication) if you want it. When the time comes for the baby to be born you are in a position you choose (most often not on our back) In my case my husband is going to catch with my midwife standing by to guide him. There are resusitation devices and oxygin for mom and baby. They have pitocin to stimulate the uterus in case of post partum bleeding. And in case of emergancy they are hooked up with a hospital near by for transport. 


You can also deliver at home many CMN’s will deliver here however you don’t have all of the same techknowlegy in your home as you do in a center. But studies show a healthy low risk woman in just as safe if not safer in her own home as in a hospital.


Whatever you choose I want you to know your choices! You need to be where you feel safe with people you trust are doing the best for you and your baby.

Monday, May 05, 2008

AH MAN ( That's amen to him)


This is what Jordan does when it's time to pray! Being sick is going to be worth it, if I get another baby even  half as cute as him!!

Thursday, May 01, 2008

It's Snowing still

The title has nothing to do with my post today I just felt like putting that out there! 


I just had to get on here and say what a great decision it was to marry Joe. He is the most wonderful man. Since we moved away from our families we have become so much closer, he has had to step it up with the kids as well. I go shopping by myself, Before we left I would leave them with my sisters, here he watches them. It has been hard for him, but he has not complained just learned what he needed to and now we are both very active in my kids lives. I think they still take him for granted but he is working very hard. 

For the last month I have been so sick. To say the least. I am trying to stay off of the drugs I took to keep me eating through all of my previous pregnancies and so I eat what I can but most of the time I am lying down trying not to puke. My house does not stay very clean, the laundry does not get done, dinner does not get made, most of the time. Joe has really stepped up to the plate. For example after getting to work at 6:00 this morning , last night he got home at 4:00 and started water boiling for spaghetti, then he feed the kids and got them washed up. We sat together and watch Little House on the Prairie (don't laugh we love it around here) He had to clean up the living room because we had some guys from the ward over for a few minutes.  Jordan was tired so he got him to bed at 7:00.  He read to Ora and Michael for a while before we had scripture and prayer.  
Then he took them and put them to bed. I was so sick last night he had almost no help at all. I don't even do that!! He did have a problem because he forgot to put there music on. But other than that he is great!    (By the way, he has to give them a ride to bed every night now)
                 

Not only that but after he was done and everyone was settled, out he door he went to help our friends who have a sick daughter. They clean the University of Utah stadium after soccer games and other events, and the money goes to her medical bills. The cleaning started at 9:00 and he got home at 11:30. Now he as work again today looking forward to coming home to clean bathrooms and do some laundry tonight. I do think he has a new respect for my mom who has done this for all of my previous pregnancies. She used to come over and hep me until Joe got home and then she would go into work for a few hours. And be back the next day when my kids got up.

I have seriously been surrounded by so many people who love me so much. I miss everyone and I hope I start to feel better so I can start getting out and seeing my friend s here again.


Friday, April 25, 2008

Differences

After some thought I have decided to keep going with these posts. I know we all have different opinions and some very strong feelings but this is why it needs to be said. There needs to at the very least be a discussion in this country to what we all really want in our lives. No woman can make a real informed decision if they do not know there are many options out there. What do you even pray about if you do not know all of your choices. Most women think of a midwife as a lady who wants you to have our baby in a barn or only in your home. This is not always the case. There are people out there who are only making things worse because they are antagonistic towards anything other than what they think you should do. This is NOT what I am about. I only want women to have the option. To know what they are getting into when they choose to have there babies wherever they choose to have there baby. So this post is the different options for a caregiver during our pregnancy and birth.


Midwife's And OBYN's   * These quotes come from MANA (Midwives Alliance of North America)

*A midwife is a person who, having been regularly admitted to a midwifery educational programme, duly recognised in the country in which it is located, has successfully completed the prescribed course of studies in midwifery and has acquired the requisite qualifications to be registered and/or legally licensed to practice midwifery.

The midwife is recognised as a responsible and accountable professional who works in partnership with women to give the necessary support, care and advice during pregnancy, labour and the postpartum period, to conduct births on the midwife’s own responsibility and to provide care for the newborn and the infant. This care includes preventive measures, the promotion of normal birth, the detection of complications in mother and child, the accessing of medical or other appropriate assistance and the carrying out of emergency measures.

The midwife has an important task in health counselling and education, not only for the woman, but also within the family and community. This work should involve antenatal education and preparation for parenthood and may extend to women’s health, sexual or reproductive health and childcare.

A midwife may practice in any setting including in the home, the community, hospitals, clinics or health units.*

Did you know there are four different types of midwives. Lay, Direct entry,Certified Professional Midwife, and Certified nurse Midwife, I would love to dredge through the confusion and let you all know the difference. 


Lay Midwife: *This is a term used to designate an uncertified or unlicensed midwife who has been educated through informal routes such as self study or apprenticeship.* 


These types of midwives are outlawed in most states in the U.S. However, there are many who practice under the eyes of the law. They are not licenced to suture, resuscitate, write prescriptions, or even to transport to the hospital. They have to disappear if something goes wrong because they can (and in my opinion probably should) be prosecuted. a lot of the moms who choose these types do not realize how little medical training they have. Although some are well trained in low risk birth I am weary because they would maybe push moms no to see a dr. or be tested for many things that would decrease there ability to birth away form a medical facility.


Direct entry midwife: *She is an independent practitioner educated in midwifery through self study, apprenticeship, a midwifery school, or a collage- or university- based program distinct from the nursing program. She works in and out of hospital setting.*


- again this lady though probably well trained to handle a low risk birth still, has no medical training. Many states licence these types of midwives, however there is a push for outlaw going on in this country as well. They have the same limitations as far as suturing and resuscitation as lay midwives.


Certified Professional Midwife (CPM) 

*A Certified Professional Midwife is a knowledgeable, skilled and professional independent midwifery practitioner who has met the standards for certification set by the North American Registry of Midwives (NARM) and is qualified to provide the midwifery model of care. The CPM is the only international credential that requires knowledge about and experience in out-of-hospital settings. *


- These women have more medical training but not enough to be able to prescribe medication. They practice at home births.


Certified Nurse-Midwife (CNM) 
Certified Nurse-Midwife (CNM) is an individual educated in the two disciplines of nursing and midwifery, who possesses evidence of certification according to the requirements of the American College of Nurse-Midwives.*


-These are my pick These women have an advanced medical degree the same as a nurse practitioner. They can resuscitate both baby and mom. They bring with them pitocin in case of hemorrhage, they very often work with OBGYN's to transfer a woman who becomes high risk. If they develop complications, or if mom needs to be transported. They monitor for these things very closely. And in no case would they deliver a women who (even if they begged) should not deliver out of the hospital. Many of the time these women deliver at homes because in this country most birth centers close within a few yeas of opening. Due to a lack of support from insurance companies.


In all other developed countries (for example: Great Britain, Sweden, Japan, Norway...) CNM's often practice alongside OBGYN's the Midwifes work with the 70-80% of low risk and the OBGY's take care of the other high risk women. 


OB/GYN: A commonly used abbreviation. OB is short for obstetrics or for an obstetrician, a physician who delivers babies. GYN is short for gynecology or for a gynecologist, a physician who specializes in treating diseases of the female reproductive organs. The word "gynecology" comes from the Greek gyno, gynaikos meaning woman + logia meaning study, so gynecology literally is the study of women. These days gynecology is focused largely on disorders of the female reproductive organs. An obstetrician/gynecologist (OB/GYN) is therefore a physician who both delivers babies and treats diseases of the female reproductive organs.  ( this definition comes form Medicinenet.com)


-A OBGYN is a medically trained surgeon When in medical school if you specialize in Birth you have a surgical rotation. These professionals are very good at what they do. They are trained to save women who need them. Unfortunately they also look for pathology where it may not be. Many of them have never seen a truly natural intervention free birth. 


If we as Americans want to bring our Mortality rates during birth back to where they should be Doctors and midwives have got to work together. There has to be a link between these two worlds. We have got to come together to help the women in this country. We have to quit fighting and work together to get informed. We have got to get better results, we claim to be the most developed country and we have more women and babes dying every day, than morst third world countries. We have got to come together Our babies deserve that. 

Wednesday, April 23, 2008

Birth in America

I have gone back and forth with my decision to write this post. I have a hard time with saying things that may be offensive, I don’t want to hurt any ones feelings I don’t want to offend my friends. But I have some extremely strong feelings about giving birth in this country. So I am going to write a series of posts on this very subject. I am going to start out with simple statistics. I bet you did not ever know. 


*In every other country in the world 70-80% of births are attended by midwives. 
*America has the 2nd Worst Newborn death rate in the world.
*In a list of 7 most developed countries with 400,000 births or more WE ARE LAST! In Maternal And infant death rate. 
*In 1900 95% of births took place at home 
*In 1938 half of babies were born at home 
*In 1995 less than 1% it is the same today. 
*In ten years the Cesarean rate in America jumped from 4 to 23% 
*Today one in three babies is born by Cesarean section. This number is rapidly rising! 
*In the Netherlands the Cesarean rate in less than 4% They also have the best Maternal and Infant Mortality Rates in the world. 
*Home birth for low risk pregnancy is as safe if not safer than at a hospital. When attended by a qualified trained midwife. 
*America’s Maternal Death Rate is higher than most 3rd world countries (with the exception being African Countries) 
*Cesarean Section is major Surgery, You are 3 times more likely to die during a Cesarean than a vaginal birth. 
*If other mammals gave birth via Cesarean they would reject there babies. 
*Birth is painful.  
*Cesarean Sections are the Number 1 surgery given to women in this Country #1!!! 
*There is a definite connection between Induction and Cesarean section. 
*In 1930 we were X-raying every woman's pelvis, before we knew it caused cancer to baby. 
*In 1950-60 We were using Philmitatine which caused some babies to be born without arms and legs. 
*In 1990 we used Sitotek which caused uterine ruptures Babies Died! We did not stop until 1999! 
*Today we have No real medical studies to show what happens to baby because of what we are using today! 

I am afraid for women in America, not only do they not know what your body is meant to do but, we have been scared into believing that birth is a scary thing to do. “You could die, baby could die.” The best thing I have heard in all of my research is from a Dr. in the New york time said “obstetrics is 98% easy 2% sheer terror” The risks are there. Thank heavens for Obstetricians they Save lives. They are very good at what they do. However, so are women.

Tuesday, April 22, 2008


You Are Pocahantas!

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Free-spirited and wise. You have a strong passionate spirit that touches and changes all who know you. The wisdom and common sense that you have is really what guides you through life. Even so, you also have a very playful side that loves adventure and excitement.


Which Disney Princess Are You?



How Funny is that! Considering this is the only disney movie i really don't like! However I will say okay I can go with that.
Thanks Sarah that was fun.

Sunday, April 20, 2008

I'm it!

I think I have done this one before, but hey I don't have much more to say and I can't really remember if I have or not. Thanks to SARAH (Humes on my list) for tagging me!

FOUR JOBS I'VE HAD IN MY LIFE:
1. Movie Theatre Cashier
2. Medical Assistant 
3. Waitress IHOP (SO MUCH FUN!!)
4. Sonic Drink and Ice cream maker.
FOUR MOVIES I WOULD (OR HAVE) WATCHED OVER AND OVER:
1. Steel Magnolias
2. Air force One (I don't know why)
3. Friends (I know not a movie but I am an addict anyway)
4. Smokey and the bandit
FOUR PLACES I'VE LIVED:
1. Hemet, CA
2. Southern, NV
3. The back of a semi
4. Utah
FOUR PEOPLE WHO EMAIL ME REGULARLY:
1. Salt lake county Library
2. Sally
3. Netflix
4. spam
FOUR OF MY FAVORITE FOODS:
1. Del Taco (chicken tacos & chili fries)
2. cereal
3. Tuna fish with ritz crackers
4. White cheddar popcorn
FOUR PLACES I'D RATHER BE RIGHT NOW:
1. Sitting next to Joe (He's cleaning for me) 
2. In the shower, if I could sand by myself
3. My moms house
4. My moms bed!!
FOUR THINGS I'M LOOKING FORWARD TO IN 2008:
1. Seeing my new baby The whole birth process. I love it. 
2. Fourth of July in Vegas
3. Jordan going to nursery
4. No longer throwing up (Are you sensing my problem yet? I am kind of grumpy today) SORRY
FOUR FRIENDS I WANT TO TAG:
I think this has been around my group but, if you feel up to it go for it.

Thursday, April 17, 2008

News

I am officially confirming the rumors.


I am having another baby. Yeah!!! Now if I could only get myself standing for five minutes of the day I think I could really get into this. I get so very sick when I am pregnant. I have found a great midwife who is doing her best to get me through this without resorting to home health visits and bed rest. So far it is going okay, I am eating enough to keep me going, and am keeping down more than I have at this stage before.  Which if you know me it is not much but, at least it is something.

 I am going in a new direction this time. Here in Utah you have several options when having a baby Hospital, Home birth, or they have a birthing center. I am so happy to say I am ditching the hospital! I am so not a fan. I don't like the epidural, I hate not being able to eat, And I Abhor having to stay for 24 hour when all I really want is to get my baby home.  Now, don't get me wrong, I am a huge fan of doctors, They save lives!! But I do not believe that giving birth is a "medical event" that women need to be saved from. I love that my body was made to have babies. (Even if I swear the very selfish side of me is secretly trying to expel it in the first 5 months through my mouth). I also am not a fan of doing it in my house. I have several very sweet friends who love having their babies born into there homes. That route is just not for me. But let me tell you The birth center here in Salt Lake is so great. ( If you feel like seeing it you can see it here) I went and toured yesterday and it was awesome. What a wonderful way to have a baby. The rooms are set up in a way that you feel like you are in your own room. But hidden in the walls are the tools that can save our lives.  The Nurse midwife can write prescriptions and resuscitate both mom and baby if necessary. I was so comfortable with her. I can't wait for my first real in depth appointment to get to know her better. Anyway I will finish my rant for now. But a am so excited to be having another little baby.

Thursday, April 10, 2008

Balloon yarn baskets

I mentioned this craft project over at Smee's but I thought I would post a few pictures of how it turned out. I saw this on the Today show, Rosie ODonald was on promoting her new book Crafty U (I ordered it yesterday). I watched and said "hey, I have all the stuff to do that" 
We started by filling balloons. Then we taped them down and chose our yarn colors. We dipped the yarn into white glue and layered it over the top of our Balloon. When The glue dried we popped the balloons and had some really fun baskets.

Moms

Ora's

Michael's




Wednesday, April 09, 2008

Over medicated

I got sucked into watching a special on PBS' frontline special called "the medicated child" If you have time check it out it is seriously scary!! Here
It hit home for me on a major level. 

I am having the hardest time making a decision. My little boy Michael is amazing. I know, I know all parents think there kids are special. But let me tell you a little about my son. 
The minute, and I mean he minute he was born, my Mother and I looked at each other and we both said "Wow, he has been waiting a very long time to get here" We both just knew he was so old. It felt like he was so much wiser than I was and he was literally minutes old. As a baby he never stopped crying. He would have to be moved every 10-20 minutes in order to keep him entertained and occupied. At 5 or 6 months he was figuring things out on his own. Finally one day he stopped crying and started walking. At 9 months. Hallelujah, I thought "great he just needed a little more control. I did better with him than my next two, he signed allot so we were able to communicate early and he could tell me most of the time what he needed. But he still kept sticking his fingers in the light sockets (probably shocked himself 10 times by the time he was 1),and jumping from all different spots along the couch.  He has just always been extremely curious. 
When he was 20 months old he got really into the prophets and decided he wanted to know all of them, so I taught him the song. But that was not good enough so we printed pictures and he learned them by sight. At 3 he tought himself how to add and subtract. I am not kidding He taught himself  he came into the room and said "Mom if I have three apples and then I get 2 apples, I have 5 apples" I said, "you are so right. But what if you ate 3 of those apples?" He thought for a minute and said said "I will have two." This went on for a while we went up to if you have 9+4, it took him a while but he came up with 13. Earlier that year he got assigned to read the article of faith in primary and so we went over it a few times during the week. On Friday he came up to me and got about halfway through the article and wanted to be able to say it all. It took all of five minutes and he was reciting it just fine. 
Now that he is older 4, he wants to read. I have come to the decision that I will help but, I also am not pushing this new stage because I guess I don't want people to think I am some crazy person and pushing him to hard.
Now however he is wanting to know more every day. We have read a book on the solar system. He has learned so much about all of the planets and if you talked to him he would teach you all about it. He will move on to something new in a few weeks. I have a book on he presidents that he is starting to like. Anyway..... 
To my point, I seriously give him two weeks in Kindergarten before I know I will be called in to "talk" about him. I know I will hear the words Ritalin,ADD, ADHD, or bipolar disorder. He needs allot of attention and is a learner but, he does get very frustrated if things don't click just right in his head. (We spent 45 minutes on the grass the other day trying to decide if he believed that the earth was round and turning in circles). I know he will be stunted in a "normal" school.  I have spent many days worrying about him and still have not come up with a conclusion. I just want my child to be the best he can. I don't think I have a good enough education (or patience) to homeschool him, and I don't think I can afford a private school. So any suggestions on what I should do???

Monday, April 07, 2008

Guitar Cake

 

I don't have a ton to say today so I just thought I would put up a picture of Joe's Cake! Michael found a picture of this in one of my books and said it had to be Dads cake. It was a lot of fun. Mostly for the kids but, Joe seemed to enjoy it as well.


Thursday, April 03, 2008

Happy Birthday Baby



He is the very best thing to ever happen to me!! I love him more than words can say. Thank you Joe for bringing me into your life. I am so glad you were born!!!