tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33906678.post200742658735124250..comments2023-11-05T01:07:34.392-07:00Comments on My own little pod: Birth in AmericaThe Peahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18193213911386473386noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33906678.post-17014808738654889482008-04-26T13:10:00.000-07:002008-04-26T13:10:00.000-07:00I think you make a good point but your stats can a...I think you make a good point but your stats can also be misleading. 100 yrs ago a baby born at 30 weeks gestation was a miscarriage now, it's a nobrainer, that kid has a very very good chance at survival. 10 yrs ago a baby born at 22 weeks was a miscarriage now we can keep some of those kids alive (for better or worse) but you have to take into account that in third world and developing nations these babies ate still miscarriages and therefore they are not included in infant mortality rates. our premies are.<BR/>Also I wonder if c-section numbers have gone up so dramatically because no one will do VBACs anymore. it used to be that even after having your first baby by c-section you could vaginally deliver subsequent babies but ours being the litigious society that it is malpractice insurance won't allow docs to even try that anymore. and no midwife (no decent midwife) will either.<BR/>I agree that there are problems with healthcare particularly with childbirth but it's not all scare tactics and disease mongering.Alison Wonderlandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15764321314666554990noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33906678.post-66429309264205567002008-04-24T22:03:00.000-07:002008-04-24T22:03:00.000-07:00I love this- Keep writing.My last birth experience...I love this- Keep writing.<BR/><BR/>My last birth experience leaves me graveling at the injustices and inadequacies and brilliance of modern medication all rolled in a ball.<BR/><BR/>Never in a million years, would it ever have occurred to me to have a midwife. I don't know why, but it didn't. Even with the best parinatologist in Utah, I struggled.<BR/><BR/>I liked what you had to say, passion is always such a good thing. Even if we don't all agree.<BR/><BR/>Keep writing.<BR/><BR/>(Oh and by the way.. I think some of your stats need to have per capa included- )Lisa M.https://www.blogger.com/profile/01015215401481176075noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33906678.post-3304713977849931022008-04-24T16:25:00.000-07:002008-04-24T16:25:00.000-07:00This is a subject that has been hashed over and ov...This is a subject that has been hashed over and over I am not sure there are any good answers, becuase every woman is different. <BR/><BR/>I really liked this post though and it kind of sums it all up for me:<BR/><BR/><A HREF="http://segullah.org/small-epiphanies/at-35-weeks/" REL="nofollow">CJane says</A>Robynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15676098515413550062noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33906678.post-12729312537064939642008-04-24T08:18:00.000-07:002008-04-24T08:18:00.000-07:00Here we go. Smee thank you, you are probably right...Here we go. <BR/>Smee thank you, you are probably right about the medicines given to your kiddos. It seems we have a lot more in common, I have been given a medicine for my first three pregnansies that is just turning out to maybe not be so safe. <BR/><BR/>1st Daughter-<BR/>This is exactly what i mean a qualified, trained mid wife. No mid wife worth her salt would have ever even thought of putting you in the position that you were in. A good one would have guided you to a doctor and helped you through the process. She would have come and seen you at the hospital and you would have been comfortable in her care. <BR/>There is nothing wrong with your baby and nothing wrong with what literally saved our life.<BR/><BR/>I am against "elective procedures" that have no medical justification to support them. NOT life saving emergent medical professionals. I am so grateful that we live in a modern world where mothers and babies are SAVED every day.<BR/><BR/>I am sorry if I hurt you, and I am even more sorry that you feel like you were cheated. There are many people out there who seriously believe if you don't go "the right way" in there little brains that you have done something wrong. These people are not helping anyone. I hope I don't come across that way. I only want every mom to be informed with what they choose do have done to them and to there babies.The Peahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18193213911386473386noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33906678.post-56870920625451678952008-04-23T20:46:00.000-07:002008-04-23T20:46:00.000-07:00I would have to agree with both pea and 1st daught...I would have to agree with both pea and 1st daughter. I think there are certain people who can choose to go with a midwife, and do it all the way with the midwife, but of course sometimes there are going to arise complications and problems, so yes thank goodness for modern medicine. One of my best friends lost her first child, because the doctor didn't detect a heart problem, which could have been fixed by surgery after the birth. I have feelings for both, and think that it is great we all have our own minds to decide what is best for us.Briannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03707119858497444250noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33906678.post-55057691847968934712008-04-23T19:10:00.000-07:002008-04-23T19:10:00.000-07:00First of all, Pea, I need to say, I mean you no il...First of all, Pea, I need to say, I mean you no ill will. Everyone is entitled to their opion and has the right to express how they feel. That being said here is how I feel on the subject:<BR/><BR/>I had a midwife. I also had a c-section, which was not the choice of my midwife, but my own and the head doctor in my clinic. My son was overdue by over 2 weeks and I developed severe toxemia days prior to Jace's delivery. I would be dead if it were not for the doctor's decision to make a "natural" event become a "medical" one. <BR/><BR/>My body doesn't "work" in a natural way and I guess you could say that I am grateful to be born in an age of medicine. Ever since the birth of my son I have felt less than female because not only was I not able to birth my son in the "natural" way, but I was not able to breast feed either (my milk never came in, no matter what or how long i tried). This is something that pains me more than I think you can even imagine. <BR/><BR/>I think it is great to encourage people to choose a path that leads them to their best possible outcome. And this to me is what a midwife should be doing for their patients, not ramming them into a choice that may in the end be harmful to not only their health but their baby's as well. I choose to have a midwife because I wanted someone who was interested in my best outcome, but in the end all she was satisfied with was me choosing what she wanted (a drug free all natural birth). This would have been great were I someone else, but I wasn't. <BR/><BR/>Medicine is not evil Pea. I am sorry to take this out on you, but it's been a long time coming and I just couldn't take it anymore. Sometimes some of us are just born "less" perfect than others of us in certain areas and that is why the Lord provided us with things like medicine and the Spirit.The1stdaughterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06701073212264414302noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33906678.post-78204581205951024082008-04-23T18:37:00.000-07:002008-04-23T18:37:00.000-07:00ugh. You're right, seems this is such a passionate...ugh. You're right, seems this is such a passionate subject for everyone! Your stats speak volumes and there's not too much anyone can argue.<BR/><BR/>I remember being SO ill during the pregnancies that I was losing weight and was hospitalized a few times for dehydration. After a while the dr. put me on bendectin (sp), which after #1 and 3/4 through #2 pregnancy they took off the market for baby disorders/birth defects. Hmm. #1 has had blood disorders all his life and immunity deficiencies, and #2 was born deaf and H/H! Wonder if there was a problem with that drug?<BR/><BR/>grrrr.<BR/><BR/>keep writing.S'meehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12101359854973455791noreply@blogger.com